The Lilac House Offers Formerly Incarcerated Women a Place to Land — and Grow — After Prison

We spoke with Pamela Zimba about the housing gap facing formerly incarcerated women, what reentry requires after years spent inside and how The Lilac House is building a place for women to navigate what comes next.

The Lilac House

When people leave prison in the United States, they return to communities with an immediate list of things they are expected to put back together.

Finding somewhere to live is often among the most urgent, alongside obtaining identification, securing transportation, meeting parole or other supervision requirements, reconnecting with family and navigating health care, benefits and other public systems.

For those returning without family support or enough money to secure an apartment, housing can quickly become the condition around which every other part of that process is organized.

A national analysis by the Prison Policy Initiative found that formerly incarcerated people experience homelessness at nearly 10 times the rate of the general population, with the risk particularly high in the first years after release. Women were more likely to experience homelessness than formerly incarcerated men.

Women can also face their own set of pressures during reentry, including family reunification and caregiving responsibilities.

And for those who need stable housing but do not require intensive treatment or meet the eligibility requirements of more specialized residential programs, the options can become limited.

Pamela Zimba understands that gap from both sides. Formerly incarcerated herself, Zimba founded The Lilac House in 2021 to provide transitional housing and reentry support for women returning to communities in and around Westchester County, New York.

"This is one of the wealthiest counties in the state, houses three state correctional facilities and boasts an insufficient reentry network," Zimba told Hyvemind in a recent interview.

In Westchester, she said, shelters often become the remaining option for women without family support who do not qualify for transitional programs serving people with chronic health or mental health conditions, substance-use disorders or histories of domestic violence.

Zimba told Hyvemind she founded The Lilac House for women who needed more support than a shelter could provide, but did not qualify for more specialized residential programs.

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At the center of the Mount Vernon nonprofit is Safe Refuge, a shared transitional home where up to seven formerly incarcerated women can live for as long as two years while working toward permanent housing.

Rather than treating independence as a fixed benchmark, the organization works with residents based on what they need to move forward, while expecting them to participate in the shared responsibilities of the house.

"Having experience with the justice system, we understand the intricacies of returning to the community and navigating the re-entry process," Zimba revealed. "In light of this, we take a personalized approach to re-entry support. We believe individualized goals and personal accountability are crucial to our participants' success."

Residents receive individualized case management alongside help finding work, clothing, transportation assistance, life-skills workshops and connections to outside services based on what each woman needs.

“A participant may come to us after years of incarceration and need to learn basic computer operating skills or how to use a smartphone,” Zimba said. “Another might need a legal referral or parenting classes for family reunification. Yet another may desire to pursue higher education or need a new environment for a new beginning.”

The Lilac House has also expanded some of its work beyond the residence through life-skills workshops, furniture assistance, food outreach and other community support, though Zimba says housing remains one of the most overlooked needs facing formerly incarcerated women in the region.

That work also means confronting some of the assumptions that can shape how much support people are willing to extend after incarceration. Zimba said formerly incarcerated people are often met with skepticism about whether they will make use of the opportunities available to them.

“Nobody that we've encountered wants to fail,” Zimba said. “In fact, the opposite is true. Our participants are driven and make the most out of even the smallest opportunities available to them.”

Gabriella Bock

EDITOR-IN-CHIEF

Gabriella Bock is an independent journalist dedicated to helping people better understanding the systems and conditions shaping everyday life, and the possibilities being built beyond them.

Her work focuses on bringing visibility to overlooked stories, untold histories and the people working to build more humane ways of living together.

Signal: gabriellabock.90

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